Kingston still won’t wear a costume for Halloween. I’ve been asking him about it all month and even offered to make a home-made car costume, but no. He wouldn’t buy it. So the night before trunk-or-treat at his school I told him he could just wear some of his regular clothes and be a “rock-star.” He LOVED that idea, and when I got him ready he couldn’t stop smiling! He was pretty cute. Then he found these huge sunglasses in his closet (thanks Grandma!) and the generic rock-star get-up quickly took an Elton John turn. We’re going for a cross between Elton, Sgt. Pepper’s Lonely Hearts Club Band, and Jimi Hendrix. We asked him last night if he wants to put on a concert for the neighborhood while we hand out candy (he likes handing out candy more than trick-or-treating. Go figure!) and he got pretty excited. We’ve been talking about it all day. So, come on by for candy and a show tonight. You’ll hear us before you see us!
For as long as I can remember my Mom has been a thrifting expert. We’re talking about WAY before it was trendy. She made my brother and me go with her all the time when we were young, and as a kid I thought it was the most boring place on earth. Why would anyone want to dig through someone else’s old stuff? Then as a teenager I was mortified to be seen thrifting. What if someone I knew spotted me in the dreadful place? It would ruin my reputation forever! Now as an adult, I’m older and wiser (sort of) and absolutely love it. Thrift stores are my favorite places to shop! It’s a little bit like a treasure hunt. You truly never know what you might bring home. I even participated in a Goodwill fashion competition last year. Me and thrifting = serious business, people. Very serious.
I know it can be a little intimidating the first time you shop in a thrift store. They don’t look or smell like a typical retail store. So, if you’ve ever tried to go in but left after your first whiff of “The Smell” (yes, they all have it) I’ve compiled a few helpful hints for you. And if you dig through the old junk long enough, I just know you’ll find some treasures too!
1. Know what you’re looking for.
Make a list before you go. Once you get into the store it’s easy to get overwhelmed by the amount of stuff and the complete disorganization. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve bought a cute shirt only to come home and find out I already have the exact same one. I probably wasn’t even looking for shirts, but I got distracted, walked by it, liked it, and had to have it. I needed a list to keep me on track! It’s easy to spend hours in a thrift store, because there’s a lot to look at, but if you stick to your list you won’t get so distracted. My lists are never super specific – just things like: navy and white stripe shirt, vintage drinking glasses, old globe or map, straw hat. It just gives me a little direction when I get turned around and can’t remember why I went to begin with! PS-If you have ADHD you might not want to go in at all. :)
2. Decide what you’re willing to pay for items.
Take into account the cost of cleaning and tailoring when you’re looking at clothes. If something is one-of-a-kind I’ll usually pay a little more for it. Like the “Think Thin” and the Florida map needlepoint pieces below. Somebody’s Grandma spent a lot of time on those, and they’re unique! I cannot turn down an old needlepoint in general. They’re so fun! I love that they are all different, so I’ll spend more on those than I will on something more generic. It’s easy to get caught up when you see something you like and end up spending more than you should. It’s good to walk away sometimes! Oh – by the way, I’ve gotten a little more choosy at Goodwill lately though. Did you know they have raised their prices? I know. The nerve! ;)
3. If you don’t love it, don’t buy it.
If you wouldn’t buy it brand new in a normal retail store, don’t buy it at the thrift store. I’ve made this mistake a lot. It’s so easy to get excited about a brand new Ann Taylor dress for $4.00, even though I don’t shop at Ann Taylor. I would never end up wearing the dress, because it’s not my style. I swear I’ve had this conversation in my head: “I think I’ll buy that dress. NO! But it still has the tags on it. Walk away. You will never ever wear it.” Try to think through your purchases before you make them. Do you really need another Beatles t-shirt? Or another white vase just because you saw a similar one at Anthropologie and know what it originally cost? Yes, I recently asked myself both of those questions! The answers were Yes and No. Sometimes I’ll put something in my cart and walk around with it for awhile until I can really think through the purchase. Heck. I do that at Target too! Don’t bring home something you won’t wear or don’t have a special place to display. All our closets and cabinets are a little too full to begin with, right?! And you could use the $4.00 you almost spent on the dress for a frozen yogurt! The goal is NOT to end up on an episode of Hoarders. It’s a fine line!
4. Go a lot.
The best way to learn what kind of merchandise a store carries is to go often. The items thrift stores stock are so random but some of them carry more of certain items. For instance, I go to some stores when I’m looking for clothes and others for furniture and home goodies. Knowing where I’m most likely to find certain items saves a lot of time when I’m looking for something specific. Good stuff moves so fast in thrift stores. Be prepared to dig. Some stores are a little more organized, but this isn’t Home Goods. You’re going to have to dig through some crap to find those gems! Sometimes I only find one treasure that deserves to come home with me. Other times, I have go through my cart and weed out my least favorite finds just to keep from spending too much. Every trip is different! (And that’s why I love it.)
5. Always try on clothes.
Vintage sizes are different, so you can’t always go by what the tag says. Some thrift stores don’t have dressing rooms, but I’ve tried things on over my clothes right there in the store many times. Who cares? It’s the thrift store for goodness sake, and most of the people in there are a little cray anyway!
6. Be informed.
Know the difference between thrift stores, antique stores/markets, flea markets, and consignment stores. Thrift and antique stores are my favorites. But I rarely go to consignment stores. I’ve found that they mostly stock name brand items that are often out of style but not old enough to be considered cool and vintage. (Think early 2000’s Gap jean skirt. There are no less than 54 of those in every consignment store.) On the other hand, if you’re searching for great vintage clothes or old advertising signs you might just go straight for the antique stores. They’re usually a little more pricey than thrift stores, but they aren’t as grungy either. And antique stores are often organized by vendor. People rent a booth and fill it with stuff, so the prices usually vary a lot between booths. I bought a globe for Kingston’s room at an antique store for $7 and saw a similar one in another booth for $17. I felt so good about it that I bought something else with that $10 I “saved.” Ha!
7. Know how the stores work.
Every store has different rules. For instance, if you see a piece of furniture that you want in a Goodwill store, take the tag off of it and take it up to the front counter. That’s how you claim it. It’s basically your way of licking it and screaming, “It’s mine!” (Do not lick the furniture in Goodwill.) The other day I was looking at the cool pink chairs below and walked away to think about them. When I came back a few minutes later the price tags were gone. Nooooo! I seriously have no idea what I would’ve done with them – we have more chairs than room in our house, but still. Also, some stores won’t sell an item without a price tag. It’s such a pain! But instead of taking it to the counter and trying to talk the cashier into giving it to you for 99 cents, find the employee with the friendliest face and ask them if they can put a price sicker on it for you. A lot of times they totally will! Even though I don’t think they’re technically supposed to. Also, a lot of stores have discounts on items with a certain color tag each day or week.
8. Keep an open mind and be creative.
Spray paint is a thrift store shopper’s best friend. You and spray paint can create magic! Re-purposing is one of my favorite parts of the thrifting process, and furniture can be transformed so easily. Look for pieces with an interesting shape, but don’t worry about the color. You can fix that! Frames and lamps are easy to paint too. I buy a lot of pieces that seem random, but there’s (usually) a method to the madness. I collect Fiestaware, because color=happy, and I love picking up pieces that go with my collection here and there. I think it makes for a more interesting table setting when everything is a little different. If you opened my kitchen cabinets you’d find that about half the contents are new and the other half are thrifted, but they all work together!
9. Find the best stores
Are you ready for this? I’m about to share a secret with you! This website has a listing of thrift stores in your area. It’s national! So not only can you use it at home, but you can find fun stores when you travel too! It doesn’t list all the stores in my area, so it’s probably not a complete listing for your city either. But. It’s a great start! I’ve already made a list of stores to hit on our trip to NYC next month. You can have Fifth Avenue. I’ll be at the Goodwill in Brooklyn. ;)
10. Don’t forget about the internet.
Over the last few years I’ve started shopping Craigslist more (mostly for furniture) and have gotten some great pieces at ridiculously good prices! I also shop a lot on eBay (they just sent me a Happy 10th Anniversary email-ha! I’ve been eBay-ing for a long time!) and have recently found some goodies at shopgoodwill.com. It’s thrift shopping without leaving your house.
Bonus: I thought you might enjoy seeing how I’ve incorporated thrifted treasures throughout our home, as well as a few outfits that feature thrifted pieces!
***And a little something extra just for my local readers! These are a few of my favorite Jacksonville stores:
Goodwill – My favorite Jacksonville locations are the Jax Beach store (1036 Beach Blvd.) and the St. Johns Bluff store (11160 Beach Blvd.)
The Thrift Store of Jacksonville – Great place for vintage housewares.
Southern Crossings – Globes, old flags, vintage clothing, signs, needlepoint pictures.
Eco Relics – Discount building materials and architectural salvage items – (old doors, windows, hardware, and cool relics).
Community Hospice – Old records, quilts, blankets, baskets.
I hope this list is helpful for you and at least gives you a place to start. Do you have any favorite thrifting secrets? I’d love to about your favorite finds!
I love this family, so when they said they wanted to do a lifestyle family shoot at Disney’s Magic Kingdom, I could not wait!
We met up the night before at our resort and got a game plan together, then the next morning hit the park bright and early-ish and shot at some of their favorite spots. Mike and Angie are seriously Disney experts. They kept telling us “insider info” and we kept saying things like, “Really? We had no idea!” I knew we were newbies to the whole Disney experience, but not anymore, people! After a weekend with the Ricks crew we know our way around, so watch out!
They have three of the sweetest kids I’ve ever met. We could not believe how kind and considerate they were. Not only did they bring us all home-made gifts, but they were also so patient with Kingston. He loved them! After the shoot we split up and did our own thing for a while. (That included a nap for my crew). Then later that evening, they took us to a yummy dinner and a show. We laughed a lot and told Anderson some fun stories from our high school adventures. (I’ve known Mike and Angie forever!) The kids were so good – Anderson’s magic tricks at dinner helped. :) Kingston loved the Ricks kids. In fact, when I asked him a few days later what his favorite part of Disney was, he said, “Playing with MY kids!” And honestly, I think that was the best part for all of us. We went to Orlando for a photoshoot and a little Disney fun, and we left feeling refreshed and encouraged by an incredible family!
Did you know that if you frown at the window where they make cotton candy at The Confectionery (on Main Street) they will give you some for free?
Just one of the many Disney secrets I learned during this photoshoot. :)
I asked the experts to send me a few of their Disney tips, so here are some of Mike and Angie’s secrets:
Katelyn is a natural in front of the camera. Years in the pageant world definitely didn’t hurt! We laughed about how her Grandma entered her in pageants as a toddler, because she was so shy. Grandma thought that would help pull her out of her shell. And it obviously worked, because now she has a magnetic personality and will talk to anyone… about anything! She brought her mom and sister along and kept us all entertained during her photoshoot. We cracked up a lot but ended the night with a serious talk about life. And boys. (Oh geez!) And how God honors obedience. I left so encouraged. Because you know what? This girl get it. She knows her life is not her own. And she wants all that she does to glorify God. Katelyn, I can’t wait to see how God uses you. He already is!
I’ve mentioned before that we aren’t really into scary Halloween decorations around here, but I do decorate a little! (See some of of past Halloween decor here.) Basically, I can’t resist the excuse to make a few new crafty projects, so when Dollar Tree contacted me about partnering with them on some crafty Halloween fun, I jumped at the opportunity! They sent me a box of spooky goodies, so I broke out the spray paint and glitter and made some new decorations for our dining room. You know why I like Dollar Tree? Because everything really is just $1. Have you ever walked in a dollar store and wondered why almost everything in the store cost more than a dollar? I mean, how is that a dollar store? Ha! Kingston and I like running to the Dollar Tree around the corner from us for some new cars and candy. :)
These black creatures were in the box, and as soon as I saw them I got an idea…
First I “decapitated” the mouse and crow with a pair of scissors. Ha! Then I spray painted some old picture frames,
filled the frames with scrapbook paper, and hot glued the creepy black creatures onto the paper.
Here’s how they turned out:
Also, note to self: Do not paint a room in your home black, especially if you take a million pictures.
Black soaks up every bit of light in a room and makes it so hard to photograph! Our dining room just became the next project on my list!
The box also had some skeleton body parts, pumpkins, and candy (not pictured – possibly already eaten).
So I spray painted the bony hand to match the picture frames, glittered the skull head, and painted the pumpkin.
A few more details:
Oh, there’s the candy!
I poured it into old jelly jars. (This is a weird admission, but I can’t throw jelly jars away. They’re so cute!)
Then I painted the tops to match the other blue details and cut circles out of the scrapbook paper to tie it all together.
Thanks for the new Halloween decor Dollar Tree!
PS – This is completely unrelated, but I had to mention it. Kingston’s big boy room is featured today on Apartment Therapy, one of my favorite design websites! Go check it out, but be warned. You’re going to get sucked into the amazing design ideas and waste the rest of your day there!